What is love, really?

‘You just need to love unconditionally.’

‘Love yourself.’

‘Does he/she love me?’

‘Can they tell that I love them?’

LOVE. What is it even? What does it even mean? What does it even entail?

We go throughout our whole lives chasing, craving, striving for love. Is it the same for everyone? Why are there so many that feel unloved? Why are there so many that feel like they can’t give enough love?

Where does it come from? Why can others feel it and others not?

Now, I’m not claiming my take on love as what it REALLY is. These are just my thoughts. These are just my understandings and feelings. And they’re ever growing.

Love is a constant. Love is always there. It’s not an action, nor a feeling. It’s even deeper than only being energy.

It’s just there.

It was never created nor will it ever be destroyed.

It’s a deep connection. A deep knowing and understanding.

Love is a flow. Love is a dance. Love is a song.

Ever changing yet constant.

Our connections with people and things are all different flows. Different dances and songs. The ‘music’ is already there, how we dance and move to it is up to us. But we will be led if we open up to where the music is taking us. And flow with it.

Feeling and sending love is just allowing that flow and dance to intertwine between people and things. When we feel unloved, we’re not allowing the song and dance to be heard or seen. It’s not because someone is not sending it because it is already all around us. No one else can control where the flow comes or goes to you.

YOU are love. Love is already a constant within and all around you. You are ALWAYS worthy of it because of that. What are you allowing in your thoughts and life to keep you from seeing, hearing, and flowing with the music? What is making you believe that you have to block that flow from flowing around, to, and from within you?

The more I’m learning to be completely ME, the more I learn about love. I believe we ALL learn more about love when we allow ourselves to be unapologetically ourselves. (red squiggly line says it’s not a word, it is today;) haha)

We all ARE love. The more you are true to you, love flows easier around and through you.

If you’re not feeling the love, what about you are you not being true to?…